A feeling quite a few people around me shared during Diwali this
time around- ‘the number of people bursting fire crackers seems to be going
down in our locality’. Most of the people saw this as a welcome sign as it
could be related to possible lower levels of air and sound pollution along with
an opinion that it was judicious use of money by spending it in other areas. While
I still await stats of how much of e-retailers and malls sold this time around,
I do foresee some big numbers arising here. But while it may have been better business
in retail; I can help suppress a fear creeping in my mind- has the spirit of Diwali
slowly eroded?
Bursting crackers during Diwali was like a social event in
my building. Children and elders came down for the occasion, pooled the
crackers and sweets and spent almost an hour together chatting, sharing jokes
and enjoying the fireworks in each other’s company. Lighting up of a 1000 or
5000 maala intertwined with an atom bomb or Laxmi bomb was like the highlight
of Laxmi Poojan. Lighting an anar or seeing a rocket go high in the air was
charming. It all seems lost today when not a single person took part bursting
crackers or even meeting each other on the occasion. My genuine concern- has Diwali
lost its social relevance as a festival and become just another occasion to
spend time and money on our own self?
Being an 80’s kid; I can safely say that I have seen the
world change in more than many ways. Concepts like one car, one TV, one phone, one
computer, one house per family has vanished and today we actually take pride in
the fact that every person in a family is likely to have their own phone, TV,
computer and car. Weekends or time after school was the time for negotiation
with parents to play cricket, football or even hide ‘n seek with the neighbour’s
kids. Even a game on Sega (only the few fortunate ones who owned it) was a
group activity with 4-5 kids lined up before the set. All this seems to be a thing
of the past.
With the sharp rise in consumerism has come the exponential
rise in personal gadgetry which in a way is threatening the need for social
interactions. Almost all kids today have a Play Station console or have
mastered the game apps on their parent’s tablets and cell phones. Playing outdoors
is usually limited to some sport involving a professional coach who is
programmed to get them into a regime designed like a rigid framework rather
than a way to unwind for recreation. One bat, a contribution to buy a ball,
stumps drawn on a wall decorated with ball marks have been overruled by console
buttons labelled by a circle, cross, square and a triangle.
This is not something which has happened all of a sudden. We
have very slowly but surely migrated into an individual driven society. For my parent’s
generation; it was always a group of friends or family that listened to the
same radio shows, saw movies together in a theatre and on occasions of
festivals- got together to enjoy on a higher level. Shopping was also a group
activity with one buyer accompanied by 3 support cast. The only forms of
personal space was either a form of art or reading books. For our generation,
it was handheld video games and the Walkman which first intruded the personal entertainment
space. Computers came in much later and affordability kept them at bay. Options
with TV channels were few and hence was replacing the radio at some level. But the
rest all remained similar.
Easier and affordable access to technology combined with
rapid growth in communications and connectivity has together resulted in a
social breakdown of sorts. Every aspect of life can now be termed personal and thereby
be personalized to taste. From being convenience; technology is now giving a
reason for the young and the adults to cocoon themselves from the outside
world. Why play in the sun, when you can play on the LAN? Why walk around in a
mall or a bazaar when you can shop and order online? Why do you need to spend
an hour bargaining with a shopkeeper for a better price when the online store
offers you a steal to begin with? Why write a letter when you can email? Why
call when you can send a message on Whatsapp?
Today, while talking about a ‘built to last’ HMT watch belonging
to his grandfather, my friend since nursery posed a thought questioning if ‘new
technologies are really an advancement’. For starters, watches have become a fashion
accessory and its functional role taken over by the cell phone. If capabilities
and features are to be put in perspective; may be a wearable gadget has a lot
more to offer than an HMT watch. But in this ‘Me’-driven world, what an iWatch,
Samsung Gear or GOQii will lack is the charm of an interpersonal conversation started
off with someone walking up to you and asking. “bhai, time kya hua hai”.
